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    i am FRIEND.

    i do not care what this means to you....
    or you... or you... or you.
    i know what this means to me and i will
    uphold it to anyone that challenges it.

    i have my strengths and my weaknesses...
    and those rise and fall dependant on circumstance
    and environment.

    i do not care what this means to you....
    or you... or you... or you.
    i know what this means to me and i will
    uphold it to anyone that challenges it.

    but sometimes people want a clear definition
    of what FRIEND means to me... so that they
    can stake their claims or poke their flags
    and mark me as FRIEND to them or others.

    here is what i mean:

    see this image.....

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    Spider20web20with20dew

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    this is FRIEND.

    the radial lines (those that extend outward
    from the center, like a ray) signify character
    traits and environments and situations and
    elements that occur within my life.

    the lateral lines signify you....
    and you... and you... and you.
    i do not care what this means to you....
    or you... or you... or you.
    i know what this means to me and i will
    uphold it to anyone that challenges it.

    some of the laterals are shared, and some
    are not. some of the laterals are overlapping
    and some are not. some of the laterals start
    and then stop halfway between the radials,
    and some do not. some of the laterals bridge
    two radials, and some do not.


    no one lateral represents one person, but
    rather, just as many radials represent
    different situations/environments/traits,
    so too are the laterals... accounting for
    different people, repeated ad nauseum.

    i do not care what this means to you....
    or you... or you... or you.
    i know what this means to me and i will
    uphold it to anyone that challenges it.

    some radials are longer than others... though
    ALL radials extend to the end of my life,
    just as memories often do... with spells of
    forgetfulness and a resurgence of memory.

    there are empty spaces where i was without...
    and some spaces where there were only one or
    two laterals.

    but unlike a real spider and its true web,
    spinning inwards to the outside, i spin my
    web from the outside in... continuously
    building new radials and laterals... as they
    soon become history and move outward, locking
    themselves in my history.

    i do not care what this means to you....
    or you... or you... or you.
    i know what this means to me and i will
    uphold it to anyone that challenges it.

    a spider's web is not 2 dimensional... as
    many people think. they are 3 dimensional...
    with their many radials bouncing in the
    wind and element... some rise and fall at
    various times.


    it does not matter to me what one radial
    thinks of another radial... or that one
    lateral may be similar to another lateral...
    every line is different from the next for
    whatever reason i choose it to be.

    i do not care what this means to you....
    or you... or you... or you.
    i know what this means to me and i will
    uphold it to anyone that challenges it.

    because this is how i choose to represent
    FRIEND, this is also how i choose to see
    FRIEND... in you and you and you....
    so while your idea may be different than
    mine, when it is discussed, this is all i see.

    though we may each share a radial, such as
    hostboard, we share different laterals.
    and no spider cares of another spider's web...
    but only how his web helps and benefits him.

    this, too, is how i see it.

    you choose to build your web in your own
    fashion, regardless of another's web. though
    your web may have congruent radials or
    laterals... it is different than mine...
    and neither one is better than the other.
    nor is one more terrible than the next.

    though i may choose to forge a lateral
    between two radials.... something you may
    not choose to do, it is my web and i make
    it in the fashion that i want. and i should
    not be chastised for it.

    my web cannot be used against me... for it
    is my web, build on my foundation and my
    blueprint... the same as yours.

    though the spider's web is often challenged
    by the elements and various articles of
    circumstance, it does not fall. though pieces
    of its web may become damaged, the spider
    will instinctively see the damage as another
    situation to create more radials... blending
    them together with the help of more laterals.

    the web will always be.
    it is the nature of the spider to build it's
    web. so, too, is it with me...

    i do not care what this means to you....
    or you... or you... or you.
    i know what this means to me and i will
    uphold it to anyone that challenges it.

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    don't look at me.... ask my fingers....

    they were the ones working while my brain
    went to lunch.... [img]tongue.gif[/img]

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    and once again..im amazed..and i understood it perfectly..how is it you do that.. [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img]

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    A mind is a terrible thing to waste..
    Kudos to ya for the typing [img]tongue.gif[/img]
    BBL.. [img]biggrin.gif[/img] <~~~ Seeeeee a friend

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    shatzy's very clever, isnt she?

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    Originally posted by TastinGood:
    shatzy's very clever, isnt she?
    <font size="4" face="Tempus Sans ITC, Tahoma">[img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img] That's sayin' it mildly [img]biggrin.gif[/img] But can she cook? LOL [img]tongue.gif[/img]

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    that's what i hear

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    i can make a mean hot pocket

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    I may have to get some tips from you!

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    *blinks, rubs eyes & stands in awe of you*

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